Bondage Manila Poll

I am...

Male Dominant 6 (31%)

Male Submissive 10 (52%)

Female Dominant 5 (26%)

Female Submissive 0 (0%)

Serving My Mistress

Everyday, after coming home from work, I would greet my mistress, kneeling. I would help her remove her shoes and then for the next five to ten minutes, I would smell and kiss her sweaty feet. Then she would summarily dismiss me and ask me to do some chores like washing dishes.

After our meal, we would prepare for bed. We would both shower, but not at the same time. First she would ask me to wait for her, kneeling again and sometimes naked while she took her shower. Afterwards, she would order me to take my shower.

When I'm nice and clean, she would ask me to dress up in a bra and thong panties, usually matching and sometimes with a garter belt and stockings. She would inspect me back and front and would usually make a remark on how slutty I looked.

I would then be instructed to lie down on the bed. Most of the time, I was asked to lie down on my tummy and would then be hogtied, ballgaged and blindfolded. That would always get me so aroused. Sometimes she would play with me a little more: spaking me, grabbing my ass or dick, snapping the staps of my bra or just talking dirty to me. She would tell me that since I'm such a whore, she would show me off to her friends in my lingerie, while tied up and wearing a collar. And it's always such an erotic fantasy. She would then read a book or sleep. It's understood that I will free myself, but that usually takes an hour or more, depending on how tight the ropes were knotted.

Sometimes though, she would tie me up on my back, but that's a different story...

Learning the Ropes

My mistress and I are both new to this. I've been tying up and getting tied up for over a decade, but these are basic role playing activities as a precursor to sex. Those have been great of course! Addictive even. However, I have been hoping for something "more intense" for lack of a better term. To explain another way, I want both the bondage and the domination in the relationship and I want those to take a bigger chunk of our day to day lives. In short, I guess I'm an addicted bondage whore! ;-) But then again, who isn't?

Mistress Found

I'm glad to announce that I've found my mistress already. I've always been a switch since I first discovered the joy of bondage a little over a decade ago. However, as my experiences progressed, I came to the unavoidable conclusion that I'm more at home as a sub than as a dom. It's hard to measure the pleasure differences, but you've got to be honest with yourself. As much as I enjoy rigging, I find a lot more in being helpless.

And so I'm really thrilled to have my mistress now and I have all new stories to share soon. ;-)

BONDAGE POLL RESULTS

Do you like bondage with pain?

Nope! I just like being tied up - 0%

I like playful punishment (hand / paddle spanking, light slapping, being pushed around) - 66%

I'm so into pain! (nipple clamps, serious whipping, wax dripping) - 33%


Does cross dressing bondage appeal to you?

Yes - I'm hetero but cross dressing with bondage arouses me - 33%

Yes - I'm homo so it's not really a strange concept for me - 33%

No - I'm not interested - 33%

No - I'm not really interested, but yes, my partner wants me to cross dress with bondage - 0%

French Maid Bondage Role Play

I managed to pick the lock of an empty house easily enough. I heard that the couple who lives there has some cash stashed in the bedroom. However, as I entered the bedroom, I saw a French maid cleaning up. She looked really sexy in her maid outfit, complete with garter belt, stockings and boots. Well I can't be derailed from my plan. I really could use the money.

I pulled out my gun and pointed it at her. She shrieked in surprise, but I quickly covered her mouth with my free hand. Then I ordered her to raise her hands and keep her mouth shut. I searched the drawers for something to restrain her. Luckily enough, the couple had a bondage stash.

I got the police handcuffs first and cuffed her hands behind her back. She was still squirming so I quickly got a purple ballgag (must have been around 1.5") to silence her. I blindfolded her with a scarf to keep my identity secret. I then looped some rope above and below her breasts and then through her armpits. I worked on her legs too. I tied her boots together and her knees as well.

Finally I was ready to get my stash. It was worth a couple of thousand bucks. Before I left though, I figured I'd play with my French maid first. I pushed down her sexy blue bra and the upper part of her costume and proceeded to suck her tits for a good 15 minutes. All the while, I kept grabbing her legs with stockings and her cheeky ass that was well exposed by the black thong she was wearing.

After I got my fun, I said goodbye to my little French maid. But she mmphed, as if imploring me to release her. I told her I would only release her if she sucked me dick. After threatening a couple of times, she agreed for as long as I would release her afterwards. She didn't want to be left behind bound and gagged since she feared she would get fired. When she finally agreed, I made her kneel in front of the bed while I sat. She sucked my dick while kneeling, which I thoroughly enjoyed. All the while she was still in full bondage aside from the gag.

After I got my fun again, I said goodbye to my little French maid. "What about our deal?" she cried. I said I changed my mind and motioned to leave. She begged that she would do anything if I would set her free. She offered couple of things, but what got my attention was the offer to cum inside her mouth. Hmmm...that was one of my little fetishes. Why not?

I pushed her on the bed while on her side and I used another rope to connect her feet to her hands. She was now effectively hogtied while facing me. I started jerking off and I asked her to arouse me. She repeated over and over how she was a slut and should be bound and fucked by strangers. With the verbal encouragement, I came after a few short minutes.

Then I left her for real, hogtied and full of cum on her face. All in a days work, huh?

ROLE PLAY AND BONDAGE

For me, one way of classifying bondage lovers is motive. I think in science, it can either be theoretical or applied. The very loose analogy for me is that the theoretical ones are those bondage enthusiasts that are very fond of the different knots and like viewing bondage subjects. They'd probably get off doing that. I, however, consider myself to be of the applied kind. I like bondage because it greatly enhances role playing sessions (or is the central theme of). So bondage in itself won't do it for me yet I think. I need the struggling noises of a helpless woman and the proper script (with costumes and props) to come with our sessions. Now thinking about it, I never really enjoyed hard core porn back in the day because after a few wah enhanced riffs of a guitar in the background (try to remember the soundtracks of 70-80s porn) everyone was naked and pumping already. Where's the fun there, right? Well I guess that's it. I'm starting to analyze porn and I'm thinking that's not a good sign. ;-)

BONDAGE POLL: How often do you get to engage in bondage with someone else?

At least once a week - 4 (57%)
At least once a month - 1 (14%)
At least once a year - 0 (0%)
Never tried it with someone - 2 (28%)

The results are pretty interesting, huh? It seems like regular bondage practitioners are also the same ones checking out bondage related sites. Let's assume for a minute that the polls are statistically meaningful. It suggests that once you've been introduced to bondage, you try to get your action regularly. I guess that divides the bondage world into newbies and addicts. ;-)

Bondage Fantasy: Couple in Bondage

I've had this nagging fantasy for a while now. I wonder who can help me make it come true.

I'm thinking that an attractive coworker and I would be in a hotel hanging out. We're there in the first place because there's an overnight office function. While watching TV, we hear a knock on the door and a woman talking through the door saying, "room service!"

Not having ordered anything, I'd wonder what it was but I'd open the door anyway. I'd be surprised because there would be two women in masks (I can tell because of the chest) with guns pointed. My coworker and I would be ordered not to move. They close the door and start ransacking the place.

Before they leave though, they would ask us to take off all our clothes. We'd protest, but would disrobe in the end since they had the guns. They would then ask us to lie down on the bed on our sides, face to face. They would proceed to tie our hands behind our backs and our feet together. Then they would tie our bodies together. Then we really won't be going anywhere!

They take the stuff and leave, locking the door behind them.

Meanwhile, my female coworker and I would start talking, discussing whether we should scream for help. But it would be too embarrassing if our other coworkers find us like this. So we try to loosen our bonds instead. In the process though, I get aroused with the friction and she starts getting scandalized.

I kiss her and she kisses back and then stops. "We should be trying to get away," she says. We kiss again briefly. "We shouldn't be doing this. We're just friends," she continues.

But this only arouses me more. With my dick already hard, I try to feel my way through her pussy hole. I plunge into her while she protests. "No, stop that!" she'd scream. But her moans would give her away and in a few minutes she'd fuck me back.

It's just too arousing, getting all tied up with an attractive woman that I don't have a relationship with. I cum within minutes and she follows suit, quivering all the while.

***sigh***

Discovered in Self Bondage

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Bondage Manila Poll Results: What is your favorite position when you get tied up?

Well it looks like Philippine bondage enthusiasts have spoken. Hogties are the most exciting! ;-) Spread eagle is a close second. So first timers, now you know what to try...

Hogtied - 8 (50%)
Chair tied - 1 (6%)
Spread Eagle - 6 (37%)
Suspension - 1 (6%)

Getting to Know Bondage Enthusiasts in the Philippines

In line with my blog's goal to push bondage into mainstream Philippine culture, I'll be featuring bondage enthusiasts from around the country. Hopefully, their stories will strike a common chord with you and will help fuel your "tie me up" instincts.

The Anonymous Seeker shares a story of a lot of bondage practitioners on the Internet (I've read a LOT of stories in my day). As a kid, his interest was piqued by bad guys tying up girls in cartoons. And that as we say, is history. Now all grown up, he's taken an interest in various tie up positions like hogties and chair ties. Why? There's nothing quite as appealing as being in someone else's mercy when you're tied up. He's also developed a more exotic interest in the use of saran wrap for mummification.

In the past, he's shared his interest with a number of girls (the ones he likes). Whereas before, he was a little shy about telling them about his fetish, now he just tells them straight up. For future relationships, he says that bondage is not essential, but it would be a good bonus if his partner lets him tie her up. If he really had his way though, he would like to handcuff a girl hand and foot and then bury her vertically in the sand.

Finally, he believes that while the Philippines bondage scene is mostly still inside the closet, it has been gaining ground. He cites a past Playhouse magazine feature on bondage, although he laments the depiction of bondage as a mere fetish and the poor quality of the bondage in the pictures.

Want to contact The Anonymous Seeker? Just leave a comment on this post with your contact details.

Bondage Manila Poll Results: Types of Restraint

Can you believe it? The results show all types have an equal number of votes. How does that happen? I suppose that it means it doesn't matter what you use as long as you're tied up. ;-)

What's your favorite type of restraint?

Metal handcuffs - 3 (33%)

Furry handcuffs - 3 (33%)

Bondage Rope - 3 (33%)

Leather Velcro Cuffs - 3 (33%)

Suspension Self Bondage Attempt

One of the things I've tried before is suspension self bondage. It's somehow exciting, but painful. Let me tell you how I did it. It was silly, really. Above my window are two strong metal bars. If I remember right, I tied hangman loops (is there such a term?) to both sides of the bar. Then I climbed up a chair, put one hand through the loop and tightened it. After that, I inserted my other hand in the other loop and pulled. That automatically tightened it. Finally, I kicked away the chair, thereby leaving me in suspension bondage.

But let me tell you. That really hurt my wrists! And for some reason, I can no longer remember how I escaped. There are only a few possibilities. Either I had scissors within hand's reach or I used straw rope which eventually gave way to the tension. It was worth a try as a novice bondage enthusiast, but it's not really my cup of tea I guess.

I wonder if the future will bring about more suspension bondage adventures for me...

Bondage Manila Poll Results: Sex Toys

If you were to buy sex toys, what would be your preference?

• Go to the store and buy it at 100% price - 2 (50%)
• Buy on-line and have it delivered to your house (delivery date and time not in your control) at 120% price - 1 (25%)
• Buy it on-line and arrange delivery details (time and place) at 150% price - 1 (25%)