The Party

A friend and I were preparing for our annual office Christmas party. Our relationship never really went past the typical flirting stage of normal men and women. But we had those moments. We talked about past sex experiences and our fantasies (sometimes with each other). But mostly, it was talk. It so happened that I also talked to her about my past bondage experiences with my ex-girlfriends, mostly because it was arousing to think about what she thought about them. Once in a while, we'd let our guard down. She'd grab my crotch while I'm driving; I'd slip my hand in her pants to grab her ass when she's wearing a thong. But for most part, we're normal friends.

It was one of those trips home when we talked about my handcuffs. Naturally it progressed to her trying them out (she's done so in the past), but this time it'll be after our party. She was my informal date, after all.

During the party, she was wearing a short black dress with heels. I can't remember if she had stockings on. We had normal fun and didn't show signs that we were thinking about our handcuff conversation. We hung out with people, sang a couple of songs, ate and drank.

Finally it was time to go home. It was around 1 AM and it seemed like the party peaked already. And so we walked together to the parking lot, all set to go home. However, once we entered the car, she brought it up immediately. "Where are the handcuffs?", she asked. That was such an arousing aggressive question. I didn't have to be asked twice. I handcuffed her at once and unzipped my pants. I drove her head down to my dick and she sucked it eagerly. Oh this was going to be a good ride.

We took the long route home of course. While she helplessly licked my dick, I pulled up her dress and saw her black thong. Yummy. I grabbed and spanked her ass repeatedly and I rubbed my hand against her cunt. I raised her dress even more and saw her lacy black bra. I took a lot of liberties. I fondled her boobs, went back to her ass and cunt and back again. And all the while she was sucking my dick while in handcuffs. It was such an erotic moment because she was completely helpless.

That continued for the next half hour or so. Eventually I took her home. We didn't go all the way, but it was a pretty good start if you ask me. Wouldn't you agree?

Hogtied by a Sexy Policewoman

I peeked inside the beach villa through the window and found it dark since most of the curtains were drawn. I figured this place would be good since I needed to score some cash and it looked empty. I guess the owner stepped out for some late afternoon beach stroll and I could be in and out of the place before anyone noticed.

Luckily, the door was open. I carefully tiptoed inside the room (it looked like a studio type place), closed the door and slowly walked towards the safe, making sure not to trip over anything. I knew where it was since I was also renting a villa.

Halfway across the room, a gun poked me from behind and a woman's voice sternly asked what I was doing in her room. I made up some excuse about needing to clean the room but she wouldn't hear any of it. She ordered me to lie down on the bed face down and proceeded to tie my hands up with rope. I kept pleading my case, but she said that she will have me arrested and that she's tying me up until the police back-up arrive. She continued tying my feet together with rope as well and connected it with my hands, leaving me vulnerable in a hogtie. Finally, she forced a black ballgag into my mouth.

The whole time I didn't see her since it was dark and I was flat on my belly. After she was done tying and gagging me, she turned me to my side and I saw her silhouette. She was a lady cop in uniform! She had a cap, hanging police blouse, short shorts and stockings with garter belt. While waiting for her reinforcements, she decided to punish me first. She whacked me several times on the ass with her hand while calling me a worthless criminal. Then she grabbed my dick through my shorts. This soon progressed into a one-sided blowjob (while on my side) since I couldn't react or object. But I was certainly aroused, specially since I got a peek of her sexy black bra while she was giving me a blow job.

Want to hear the rest of it? I'll continue in a bit...

Ballgag Fetish

What is it about ballgags that drives me totally insane with lust? I think the first time I saw one was around 10 years ago, but at that time I didn't really distinguish it as anything totally sexy. I was really just happy to see tied up women. But over the past couple of years, my taste has evolved. The sight of a woman wearing a ballgag (especially while hogtied) just really merits a third or fourth look from me. I wonder if that's strange.

I did a Google search on, "do you find ballgags sexy?" and I didn't find an exact match. That means no one even asks it. I wonder if that makes me strange.

One of my favorite videos is something I downloaded off some site. It was Eve Ellis and Ashley Renee tied up together, completely naked and both sporting ballgags. I've had so much special time because of that short clip. They were kinda just rubbing on each other while completely tied up. Too bad I lost the video. I didn't even know the title of the clip so I can't download it again.

Does anyone else find ballgags on women over the top sexy?

The Handcuffs, the Thong and the Blowjob

Years ago, I didn't really know what a thong was. Can you believe that? So when my girlfriend then showed me her white thong, I was instantly aroused. I didn't even know what it was called, but I knew that I liked what I saw. She stayed overnight in my place because were were going out of town the following morning. But before she slept I asked that she leave her pants off so I can keep seeing her delicious ass. (I left the lights on).

I waited until she was genuinely asleep.

Then I got my trusty handcuffs, adjusted her so she lied face down and cuffed her hands behind her back. I grabbed her ass that was totally making me horny and slapped it a couple of times. Then I made her kneel while I stood on the bed and grabbed her by the hair. I took down my shorts and brief and roughly rammed my dick inside her mouth. She was clearly awake by this time and was cooperating (although she still seemed disoriented). In this instance, she wasn't giving me a blowjob. I was fucking her mouth. Although I generally favor, long, slow strokes, this time it was fast and furious.

Within a few short minutes, I came inside her mouth. Her thonged ass and the hours of waiting really put me on the edge. After cumming, I lost strength as usual and threw her down on the bed like a whore I was done with she couldn't even clean herself since she was still handcuffed behind her back.

I undid her cuffs after a few minutes and let her sleep again.

That was seriously one of the few times I came through oral stimulation. First times usually have that effect. Believe it or not, it still took a couple of years before I developed a thong fixation. Man, that was a good happy memory for me.

Talented Partner

I had a talented partner in the past. She was good because she demanded from me. She asked me to lick various parts of her body. In fact I remember a time when I tied her spread eagle to a bed. I had just finished my cum session and my body wasn't in the mood to "give a rise". So while tied on the bed, I just licked her cunt to her satisfcation. But I digress.

Generally, she's easy to please. She would usually cum after a few minutes. I know since she won't let me cum until after she's done. See, the girl knows how to demand. Afterwards, one of our more pleasant finishes is that she would tie me up afterwards in a chair and finish me off with her hand.

Those were days without condoms (it wasn't second nature to me). It just amazed me that she learned hand jobs goood enough to finish. I am assuming not all women have that skill in the same way not all men can finish women off with their fingers.

It was nice and simple. I got my bondage and my climax.

Adengage Experiment; Bondage Manila Poll Results

Well I've had it with adengage. I tried for a week, but I couldn't figure out how to make it work. I don't think my application was even approved. So there.

On the other hand, here are the results of the last survey. Either I have guy viewers or we all just like getting tied up by girls! What does this say? We don't care if you're a stranger. Tie us up!

Seriously, would you ever consent to being tied up by a stranger in a motel?
4 (80%) Yes, by a guy
1 (20%) Yes, by a girl
4 (80%) Yes
0 (0%) No

Ballgag Supplier in Quezon City

The ballgags are made of either hard plastic or soft silica gel.

Ballgag Supplier in Quezon City

Hey guys, I may have found an affordable ballgag supplier. If you're interested in getting one, buzz me. I'll let you know when I have more details.

Leave a comment on this post so I can come find you.

Bondage Preferences

My little poll has ended.  Boy does the Philippine market surprise me.  Ballgags ranked first!  And role play costumes ranked painfully low.  I would've thought that would have been number 2 after handcuffs.

 

Poll Results

 

What sex toy are you most likely to buy assuming you can be assured of quality and discretion?

Handcuff (any type)	10 (50%)
Ballgags	15 (75%)
Whips / Paddles	2 (10%)
Role Play Costumes	2 (10%)

 

Officemates Looking for Shelter

I recall one time where my friend and I pretended to be officemates stuck with no where to go because it was raining so hard and we needed shelter. Let's call her Suzy. Suzy and I drove in to a motel in Pasig to sleep and get out of the rain. Naturally since it was a motel, there was only one bed. But since we were good friends too, it was ok with her.

A couple of minutes later, she was already sound asleep. That's when I got my "supplies" from the car. Nothing too fancy. Metal handcuffs, some rope and a scarf. First thing I did was to slowly take of her top and then her pants. That left her, surprise surprise, in a black bra and thong combination. What a sluttly officemate she's turning out to be!

Then I handcuffed her behind her back and tied her feet together. Of course I connected the two and made it a hogtie since that's what arouses me the most. Then I wrapped the scarf around her head a couple of times to muffle any screams in case she wakes up.

After admiring my handiwork and being amazed that she has remained asleep, I stripped down to my briefs as well (a thong actually). That's when the fun started. She was then on her side since she was hogtied, then I pulled her bra cups one at a time and started sucking on her breasts. That woke her up in a jiffy! She started struggling violently as she realized what I was doing. However, she was tied and gagged pretty effectively. All I could see was the shocked look in her eyes. That aroused me even more and I made my breast sucking more vigorous.

After I was done with her breasts, I undid the connecting tie between her legs and hands and pushed her down to her tummy. I slide aside the piece of string covering her ass and started fucking her from behind. By this time, she was really screaming through her gag, but it was a good gag so everything was muffled. But all the bucking and protesting just aroused the rapist in me even more. It was in the midst of all the attempted screams that I finally came and I did so all over her back.
Yummy! I love role plays!

Dominatrix Searching in Quezon City

In my last entry, I talked a little about fetish escalation; how it has become important to have costumes and garter belts. Now, let me walk you through my current escalation.

My partners generally slap me and spank me around, but still now I wonder about hiring a true dominatrix (Metro Manila only please). I think there are two things I look for in this relationship. One, I would like my mistress sophisticated enough to understand and execute intricate ropework of hogties and strappados and others and to know how (and like) to use all sorts of bondage toys like ballgags, spreader bars, collars and whips. Second, I think a third party dominatrix would be exciting simply because she's a third party. And the leather get-up...yummy. There really doesn't have to be sex, but that episode would be still oozing with sexuality. Oh a third reason. I read about tie-up sessions that last for days, which I've never done. To have that many varieties of getting tied and teased would be the extreme in excitement for me.

Well just so you know. I haven't found any. I'm still looking, but I seem to be looking in all the wrong places. So if you're a dominatrix in Metro Manila, please let me know. I find it impossible that I'm the only one with this desire in the area.

Garter Belt Fetish

When I used to read Penthouse and Playboy, I'd always see women in all sorts of costumes, incuding the naughty nurse and the slutty French maid. While nudity gets to me (I mean throw a naked woman in front of me, it'll have an effect), I've always preferred scantily dressed ones. Thus, my most memorable pictures are not those that are up close and personal, but those that show costumes and a semblance of a plot.

As I've written in the past, my bondage fetish began quite early (pre-teen I believe). But at that time, I was fine imagining women clothed while tied up. Naturally, that escalated. Before long, the women had to be in sheer black lace or leather and panties have to be thongs. Most recently, I've also taken to women in garter belts. It's the basic picture of a slutty girl. That's what gets to me.

A best picture now is a pretty hogtied girl with a ball gag while wearing a barely there French maid costume with a thong and garter belt. Yummy.

But where to get those in Manila? Believe it or not, your friendly malls like Megamall have them in the department store, but with hardly any stock. Twice now, I've purchased them as last of the stock.

Caught by the police in bondage

Over a score of years ago, my girlfriend and I went to Antipolo. After dinner in probably Padi's Point, we went to the dark parking lot and started making out. It was really old fashioned then since we were playing in the back seat. After kissing and necking for a good number of minutes, the windows started fogging up. I was excited making out since my girlfriend was wearing a sexy black bra. After I removed her shirt, I got some rope I brought along and tied her hands in front. I was really excited and I started licking and sucking on her breasts.

To my surprise, someone knocked on the windows. I freed her as fast as I could and she got dressed. What happened after that wasn't really all that important, but it was a good defining moment for me.

To be caught in self bondage

One time, my girlfriend and I were out of town (outside Metro Manila) and were in a hotel room. Naturally, I wanted some tying up to happen. As I shared, more often than not, I end up doing the tying, which is great. After all, nothing arouses me more than a trussed up, helpless woman. However, I also adored getting tied up. So I figured, if I was to be on the bound end of this episode, I better throw hints. While my girlfriend was in the shower, I gathered my leather cuffs and my handcuffs (I can't remember if there was rope). I got a rubber ball (more like a stress ball), shoved it in my mouth, then tied a scarf around my head. So it was like a cleave-gag & ballgag combination. It was effective! Then I tied another scarf around my eyes to blindfold me. Then I strapped the leather cuffs on my ankles and crossed it with the handcuffs which I wore behind my back, effectively putting me in an inescapable hogtie. I mmmphed and struggled for a good number of minutes while hogtied before she went out and discovered me. To my dismay, she kissed me for a while and freed me. Ah yes, sometimes stronger hints are necessary.

Dominants and Submissives

As I indicated in my prior posts, I do hold a certain affinity for being bound. That's probably why I became fairly skilled in self bondage. Naturally, it's one of the things I also looked for in my relationships: for my partner to tie me up. I guess what I've not mastered is transitioning the role. When I introduce hogties, gags, slapping and spanking, I'm usual the doer. Ergo my partners get used to that. How to communicate that I'd also like to be at the receiving end (a lot of times) remains a challenge. Pun intended, I'm bound to my role.