Adengage Experiment; Bondage Manila Poll Results

Well I've had it with adengage. I tried for a week, but I couldn't figure out how to make it work. I don't think my application was even approved. So there.

On the other hand, here are the results of the last survey. Either I have guy viewers or we all just like getting tied up by girls! What does this say? We don't care if you're a stranger. Tie us up!

Seriously, would you ever consent to being tied up by a stranger in a motel?
4 (80%) Yes, by a guy
1 (20%) Yes, by a girl
4 (80%) Yes
0 (0%) No

Ballgag Supplier in Quezon City

The ballgags are made of either hard plastic or soft silica gel.

Ballgag Supplier in Quezon City

Hey guys, I may have found an affordable ballgag supplier. If you're interested in getting one, buzz me. I'll let you know when I have more details.

Leave a comment on this post so I can come find you.

Bondage Preferences

My little poll has ended.  Boy does the Philippine market surprise me.  Ballgags ranked first!  And role play costumes ranked painfully low.  I would've thought that would have been number 2 after handcuffs.

 

Poll Results

 

What sex toy are you most likely to buy assuming you can be assured of quality and discretion?

Handcuff (any type)	10 (50%)
Ballgags	15 (75%)
Whips / Paddles	2 (10%)
Role Play Costumes	2 (10%)

 

Officemates Looking for Shelter

I recall one time where my friend and I pretended to be officemates stuck with no where to go because it was raining so hard and we needed shelter. Let's call her Suzy. Suzy and I drove in to a motel in Pasig to sleep and get out of the rain. Naturally since it was a motel, there was only one bed. But since we were good friends too, it was ok with her.

A couple of minutes later, she was already sound asleep. That's when I got my "supplies" from the car. Nothing too fancy. Metal handcuffs, some rope and a scarf. First thing I did was to slowly take of her top and then her pants. That left her, surprise surprise, in a black bra and thong combination. What a sluttly officemate she's turning out to be!

Then I handcuffed her behind her back and tied her feet together. Of course I connected the two and made it a hogtie since that's what arouses me the most. Then I wrapped the scarf around her head a couple of times to muffle any screams in case she wakes up.

After admiring my handiwork and being amazed that she has remained asleep, I stripped down to my briefs as well (a thong actually). That's when the fun started. She was then on her side since she was hogtied, then I pulled her bra cups one at a time and started sucking on her breasts. That woke her up in a jiffy! She started struggling violently as she realized what I was doing. However, she was tied and gagged pretty effectively. All I could see was the shocked look in her eyes. That aroused me even more and I made my breast sucking more vigorous.

After I was done with her breasts, I undid the connecting tie between her legs and hands and pushed her down to her tummy. I slide aside the piece of string covering her ass and started fucking her from behind. By this time, she was really screaming through her gag, but it was a good gag so everything was muffled. But all the bucking and protesting just aroused the rapist in me even more. It was in the midst of all the attempted screams that I finally came and I did so all over her back.
Yummy! I love role plays!

Dominatrix Searching in Quezon City

In my last entry, I talked a little about fetish escalation; how it has become important to have costumes and garter belts. Now, let me walk you through my current escalation.

My partners generally slap me and spank me around, but still now I wonder about hiring a true dominatrix (Metro Manila only please). I think there are two things I look for in this relationship. One, I would like my mistress sophisticated enough to understand and execute intricate ropework of hogties and strappados and others and to know how (and like) to use all sorts of bondage toys like ballgags, spreader bars, collars and whips. Second, I think a third party dominatrix would be exciting simply because she's a third party. And the leather get-up...yummy. There really doesn't have to be sex, but that episode would be still oozing with sexuality. Oh a third reason. I read about tie-up sessions that last for days, which I've never done. To have that many varieties of getting tied and teased would be the extreme in excitement for me.

Well just so you know. I haven't found any. I'm still looking, but I seem to be looking in all the wrong places. So if you're a dominatrix in Metro Manila, please let me know. I find it impossible that I'm the only one with this desire in the area.

Garter Belt Fetish

When I used to read Penthouse and Playboy, I'd always see women in all sorts of costumes, incuding the naughty nurse and the slutty French maid. While nudity gets to me (I mean throw a naked woman in front of me, it'll have an effect), I've always preferred scantily dressed ones. Thus, my most memorable pictures are not those that are up close and personal, but those that show costumes and a semblance of a plot.

As I've written in the past, my bondage fetish began quite early (pre-teen I believe). But at that time, I was fine imagining women clothed while tied up. Naturally, that escalated. Before long, the women had to be in sheer black lace or leather and panties have to be thongs. Most recently, I've also taken to women in garter belts. It's the basic picture of a slutty girl. That's what gets to me.

A best picture now is a pretty hogtied girl with a ball gag while wearing a barely there French maid costume with a thong and garter belt. Yummy.

But where to get those in Manila? Believe it or not, your friendly malls like Megamall have them in the department store, but with hardly any stock. Twice now, I've purchased them as last of the stock.

Caught by the police in bondage

Over a score of years ago, my girlfriend and I went to Antipolo. After dinner in probably Padi's Point, we went to the dark parking lot and started making out. It was really old fashioned then since we were playing in the back seat. After kissing and necking for a good number of minutes, the windows started fogging up. I was excited making out since my girlfriend was wearing a sexy black bra. After I removed her shirt, I got some rope I brought along and tied her hands in front. I was really excited and I started licking and sucking on her breasts.

To my surprise, someone knocked on the windows. I freed her as fast as I could and she got dressed. What happened after that wasn't really all that important, but it was a good defining moment for me.

To be caught in self bondage

One time, my girlfriend and I were out of town (outside Metro Manila) and were in a hotel room. Naturally, I wanted some tying up to happen. As I shared, more often than not, I end up doing the tying, which is great. After all, nothing arouses me more than a trussed up, helpless woman. However, I also adored getting tied up. So I figured, if I was to be on the bound end of this episode, I better throw hints. While my girlfriend was in the shower, I gathered my leather cuffs and my handcuffs (I can't remember if there was rope). I got a rubber ball (more like a stress ball), shoved it in my mouth, then tied a scarf around my head. So it was like a cleave-gag & ballgag combination. It was effective! Then I tied another scarf around my eyes to blindfold me. Then I strapped the leather cuffs on my ankles and crossed it with the handcuffs which I wore behind my back, effectively putting me in an inescapable hogtie. I mmmphed and struggled for a good number of minutes while hogtied before she went out and discovered me. To my dismay, she kissed me for a while and freed me. Ah yes, sometimes stronger hints are necessary.

Dominants and Submissives

As I indicated in my prior posts, I do hold a certain affinity for being bound. That's probably why I became fairly skilled in self bondage. Naturally, it's one of the things I also looked for in my relationships: for my partner to tie me up. I guess what I've not mastered is transitioning the role. When I introduce hogties, gags, slapping and spanking, I'm usual the doer. Ergo my partners get used to that. How to communicate that I'd also like to be at the receiving end (a lot of times) remains a challenge. Pun intended, I'm bound to my role.

Bound Girlfriend

Let me jump a couple of years ahead first. As circumstances would have it, my first girlfriend and I would sneak off to their Quezon City house when no one was around and we'd make out in her bed room. That worked out great since I didn't have any Victoria Court experience at the time. I always stripped her to her bra and panties since I found that extremely sexy (sexier than naked in my opinion). As the sessions progressed, I started holding down her arms and then I started grabbing scarves (or whatever they were) and tying her hands above her head. While tied up, I would continue fucking her and get really excited. Naturally I always withdrew before cumming . Anyway, While I found bondage amazing then (no matter how simple), my girlfriend wasn't really into it. She called me kinky I think and it wasn't a compliment then (these days I would love to hear it). At this point, was anyone else into bondage? I was. I really didn't know if anyone else was.

Chair Tied

One of the self-adventures I had as a pre-teen was tying myself on a chair. The chair was made of Narra I believe or some other really hard and heavy wood. The back rest looked like wooden bars. So I had basic rope (I think I graduated from straw ropes by this time) and first I did my feet to the chair legs. Then I think I tied myself to the chair and then my hands together behind my back. I became really adept at that and became progressively harder to free myself. It just so happen that was probably a Sunday morning or noon. People started knocking on my door. Well now, the panic took some of my escape skills away and I spent precious minutes trying to free myself. I wonder if the people got suspicious. Probably, but since my door was bolted no one could really just unlock the door and sneak up on me. Ah yes, my teenage adventures.

Rookie in Bondage

As a pre-teen, I recall "smuggling" straw ropes from our supply cabinets. I use those to tie myself up. I've tried hands in front, hands at the back, hanging from a metal bar, and even tied to a chair. What is the relevant learning? You can't undo straw ropes and they bite your wrists! Ah yes, I've chewed off a couple of those since I couldn't get them off. And I'd use scissors too. In time, I learned...

My First Time

I honestly can't remember when I started getting interested in getting tied up. I think even as a pre-teen, I'd stash ropes and would try to tie myself up. I guess I started with just hands in front but then I began to experiment more. I would fall asleep with my hands bound with rope and would free myself in the morning. I'm not sure it was erotic then; maybe just exciting. But of course, that progressed with time.

Welcome to Bondage Manila

Hello everyone! Welcome to the Bondage Manila blog. I'd say I'm a pretty good Internet surfer, but I can't really find an authoritative source of bondage material specific to Manila. By that I mean there are no forums, mailing lists, blogs dedicated to...heck we don't even have a healthy number of reputable bondage toys stores. Am I right or am I right? I'll do my part in helping plug that gap (or ballgag that mouth ). Let's enjoy this journey. I hope you all take part in it.